Author: Lisa
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What Are You Being Known FOR?

“Watch out for the Christian who spends more time telling you what she is against rather than what she is for.” ~ Kristi Mclelland
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Note To Self: We Still Have Hope!

By Lisa S. Tarno I love to be gobsmacked with revelation in scripture! Author and teacher, Kristi Mclelland pointed out something I have completely overlooked in the Bible. In the book of Luke, chapter 4:14-21 Jesus is reading from the scroll of the prophet Isaiah and recited chapter 61 but left out the latter portion…
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Finding My Moorings…Beyond The Conflict Conversation Part 2

By Lisa S. Tarno Another year passed and another year of being gaslit by said person in previous article happened again. Gaslighting is defined as, “To cause (a person) to doubt their judgement, memory, or sanity through the use of psychological manipulation. To deceive ( a person or group of people) through repetition of a…
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Here I Am Again… (Part 1)

The Conflict Conversation Equation By Lisa S. Tarno A simple yet very effective relational tool was impressed upon my heart. I call it the conflict conversation equation. It is simply asking myself before having a crucial conversation with someone three things: There are many things we can say to point out truth to another but…
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Today I Choose Joy

By Lisa S Tarno I am setting my mind on joyful living! It’s purposeful and the secret sauce to living well. We have the control to choose our thoughts. We can direct our minds and be intentional about what we will think about and what we won’t. The backdrop of joy first needs to come…
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The Tension Of Training Your Heart

By Lisa S. Tarno I just heard a great message from our pastor on training the heart. He highlighted two verses that are important to understand why we act the way we act and what to focus on to improve. The situations are when we are provoked what our reactions are and what they say…
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The War For Our Minds

By Lisa S. Tarno To defend the land you need an army, but to defend freedom you need education”~ Rabbi Jonathan Sacks This statement really resonated with me. Our world is in crisis. In the Bible, Matthew 24 has a lot to say: “Jesus told them, “Don’t let anyone mislead you, for many will come in…
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Little Changes, Amazing Outcomes- The One Degree Difference

By Lisa S. Tarno I’m reading a great book, “Atomic Habits” by James Clear and the information he presents is a new way to look at the things we achieve in our lives. Many of us know about goal setting and having action plans. This author talks more about the action plans or as he…
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Making Deposits…A Life Tip For Growing Things

By Lisa S. Tarno So I’m doing the do. I’m getting out there in a new place and meeting people. As well, my husband and my strategy in this new place is the fire-hydrant-approach to meeting people. We are getting involved in a lot of things to put ourselves out there socially, spiritually and athletically.…
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Small Talk…Blah, Blah Blah

By Lisa S. Tarno Am I alone in this feeling? I just do not like small talk. It seems forced, fake, and very uncomfortable. It happens at events, dinner parties, corporate parties and social settings where the main event either hasn’t begun or has just finished. Unless you find the right person that you instantly…
